My new favorite picture of Peanut!
(Thanks, Snickles!)
My new favorite picture of Peanut!
(Thanks, Snickles!)
Every few years, my high school boyfriend tries to have sex with me. On Tuesday, he sent me the following message:
“Hi! You never responded to my last message. I was a little sad. How has your summer been? Visiting Sacramento anytime soon?”
For those of you who don’t think this message has anything to do with sex, you are wrong. The explanation point after the greeting, the acknowledgement of my lack of response, the expression of sadness regarding our failed correspondence, the questioning of my travel plans… the whole message screams sex. And I try not to engage in ex-sex.
Though my pond is currently void of any fish, I like to think I don’t need to resuscitate a floater in order to have a nice swim. Who wants to swim with a dead fish? I would rather spend time with my grandparents.
I accidentally watched part of The View this morning, and I caught this exchange. Though I don’t completely agree with Elizabeth, I certainly don’t agree with Whoopi and Shari’s explanation, not to mention Whoopi’s decision to use the n-word six times to prove her point (that’s not exactly a “private” use of the word, is it?). In my quite humble opinion, using the n-word within the black community does not reclaim it or take away its power; instead, it gives other ethnic communities permission to use the word. Bottom line: the n-word has meaning, and using the n-word perpetuates hate. I think Elizabeth’s question is valid: Why continue to employ a vernacular that signifies systemic oppression? By asking this question, Elizabeth acknowledges—not denies—the presence of systemic racism.
Additionally, it’s misleading to say Elizabeth was “schooled on her white privilege.” The only mention of white privilege was during the S&M Barbie segment prior to the segment on Jesse Jackson’s use of the n-word, when Whoopi briefly discussed her aversion to Barbie as a child because Barbie didn’t look like her. Looking like Barbie is an example of white privilege, along with always having a teacher who looks like you, or band-aids that match your skin tone, or seeing yourself reflected in the pages of a textbook. Questioning the use of the same language in different cultures is not an example of white privilege. Discussions on white priviledge and the use of the n-word in the black community are both meaningful and worthwhile, but different conversations.
After writing this, I’m sure someone will accuse me of being what’s wrong with this country, too. If you choose to make that accusation, please make sure to include the fact that I articulate the above-stated sentiments to—and, therefore, corrupt the minds of—200 high school students per year, even forcing them to read and discuss articles on white privilege, track the use of the n-word in To Kill a Mockingbird, and examine their use of the words they are allegedly reclaiming, both racial and sexual, such as bitch and whore.
Oh, Hostile Holly. Bless her heart.
Elizabeth Hasselbeck gets schooled on her white privilege — and bursts into tears — in a heated discussion of the “N” word with Whoopi Goldberg on The View.
The best (or worst) part is that she really does seem to want to “get” why it’s OK for the black community to use the N word in private and white folks can’t, but she’s so stuck in the blinkers of her own unexamined prejudice that she has no idea how to have a real dialogue. Her desire to move beyond race is certainly admirable, but her utter refusal to acknowledge systemic racism and to think that “everything is better” really represents what’s still wrong with race dialogue in this country.
Oh, Elisabeth. Bless her heart.
Claire sent me this recommendation on Netflix today: “I know that after your poop today you’re only three months pregnant, but I thought this would be enlightening for you.”
Thanks for making fun of my baby bump, bitch. When did Netflix become another avenue for internet bullying?
The Sun fueled an Internet fire this morning with reports that Sienna Miller and married father of four Balthazar Getty were “holed up at LA’s exclusive Chateau Marmont Hotel after their secret Hollywood hideaway was exposed.”
Sienna started seeing the multi-millionaire tycoon and actor during a trip to Los Angeles in March, while she was still with Rhys Ifans, according to the British blabloid.
Nora Walker is not going to be happy about this.
Khloe Kardashian’s next dose of reality will involve the county jail. The reality show star and youngest daughter of the late attorney Robert Kardashian admitted during a July 3 court hearing that she violated her probation stemming from a 2007 drunken driving arrest, according to court records.
Bad Khloe. At least she gets to take a break from “working” soooo hard at Dash.
These are Jesse’s proposal notes. Whip cream. Cheescake. Your the one.
Oh, Jesse. Your pathetic.